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Thursday, January 28, 2010

0 comments Posted by Chantal Elise at 8:25 AM

why do people never evaluate their worth? every1 seems 2 think that they deserve the best. but did any1 ever stop 2 think that they themselves are mediocre? theres nothing wrong with being average. but if ur an average human being, what on earth makes you think you deserve perfection?


like u no how ppl say a 7 shud be with a 7, or a 5 should be with a 5, wat if u applied this theory a little deeper. if your an 8 quality human being: smart, good looking, kind, financially stable/comfortable, then u shud be with someone who has all those same qualities to the same extent.

wat makes u think that u deserve aaallll this that u demand? how can u demand qualities in another person that you urself do not posses?

i understand that im asking alot of people, that this requires a level of self reflection difficult for most of us, including me. but can we try?

for example- i think im a decent human being. im college educated, not bad looking. i can be funny sometimes, and most of the time im kind to others. but i also recognize my flaws: i have a temper, and i always think im right. i have a gap in my front teeth and im still trying 2 figure out wat i wanna do with my life. so when evaluating men, i try not 2 demand perfection. so i cant reject a man for not having perfect teeth, or being a little messy, or not having a ton of money. I have no rite 2 expect things from a man that i dont posses myself.

 

Sunday, January 24, 2010

0 comments Posted by Chantal Elise at 8:31 PM

it takes a strong person 2 be alone. To choose to be alone. Its very easy to surround urself with useless people. People you cant stand, friends who aren't really ur friends. So when u make the choice to get rid of all those toxic people in ur life, all the toxic relationships, ur left alone. And its hard, it sux. But i think its the brave thing 2 do.

 

Saturday, January 23, 2010

Old Helen is gone...

0 comments Posted by Chantal Elise at 2:50 PM

You cant control how the person ur with feels or what they do. But the thing is, what ppl do, their actions, they matter. People talk all this shit how every1 makes mistakes but the truth is, once u do something, u cant take it back. Every action has a reaction. U can only break a girls heart so many times before uve broken it for good. Its so easy when ur young to think that wat u do doesnt matter.



 

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