Tell Em Why You Mad...

like u no how ppl say a 7 shud be with a 7, or a 5 should be with a 5, wat if u applied this theory a little deeper. if your an 8 quality human being: smart, good looking, kind, financially stable/comfortable, then u shud be with someone who has all those same qualities to the same extent.

wat makes u think that u deserve aaallll this that u demand? how can u demand qualities in another person that you urself do not posses?

i understand that im asking alot of people, that this requires a level of self reflection difficult for most of us, including me. but can we try?

for example- i think im a decent human being. im college educated, not bad looking. i can be funny sometimes, and most of the time im kind to others. but i also recognize my flaws: i have a temper, and i always think im right. i have a gap in my front teeth and im still trying 2 figure out wat i wanna do with my life. so when evaluating men, i try not 2 demand perfection. so i cant reject a man for not having perfect teeth, or being a little messy, or not having a ton of money. I have no rite 2 expect things from a man that i dont posses myself.